I recently reached out to my longtime Art Hero – someone I admire for both her artwork and also her tenacity (some call it grit!). She is a significantly professionally-successful artist whom I first encountered before she Made It Big, and as a part of my own journey, I just wanted to let her know how much her artwork has meant to me over the years and how deeply it has personally inspired me.
I was nervous, yet simultaneously expecting a warm response. I think I expected this because her work is so process-oriented and seems to be a labor of love. I was thinking that someone who is so hard-working and talented would be in a state of humility about her gift and her labor and be happy to connect with a true fan.
I am very happy to say that I called it exactly right! My Art Hero not only responded to me, but she did so with grace and kindness. She went a bit out of her way to engage me in a particular conversation. It made me feel……..so important, so appreciated, that I am her fan and care about her work. I am so glad that I reached out to her!
It feels often to be the case that artists can be innately solitary creatures, with a disdain for sharing too much about their work and their processes, and that to share their work or to join their art community is a difficult process of letting go of the fear of judgment or in fear of the opposite; of being ignored. Sometimes artists practically covet their own ideas, and simply want to deny others the chance of being influenced. (I paused in my writing here, to do a search so I can read what others think about this, and quickly found writings about Artists and Loneliness; to be explored in a future post, perhaps.). Whatever the reason, it is not always the habit of an artist to reach out to others and commune with them. By reaching out to my Art Hero, I ignored the call to alone-ness and found a real benefit to making that connection.
Who is your Art Hero, and are you willing to reach out and make that connection?
